I had the opportunity to attend a Women's Virtual meet yesterday. I'm not usually the kind of person who does that and going in I had my own speculations about the entire setup. The questions started off light and funny - they were playing 'Never have I ever'. And the stories that backed up their … Continue reading Speak Life
Incoming repost. 😅 I wrote this one in the thick of uncertainty and my own insecurities. Somehow, I find myself here again. Where is all this headed? Does this matter? Was there a better path I should have taken? Does it get better? Especially that last question! There's nothing new here but I do hope … Continue reading On drowning in self-doubt (3 easy steps)
It's Friday👯♂️. Not that it makes much of a difference in lockdown when the days start to blur together. But the fact that it's Friday got me thinking about dress downs at work. I once interned at an office and you could tell it was Friday just by the dressing. I enjoyed those because it … Continue reading Culture and Fashion Week: When the past and future collide.
A thousand flaming hot-coals heaped on your head, with your mouth gagged and your stomach twisting to a load of tiny little stabs. And absolutely no respite in sight. That's grim. Maybe it's more like a glitch in your story. You think you are moving forward then once the glitching stops, you find you have … Continue reading What the Wait feels like!
Happy Valentine's!!! And I hope you are having/have had a lovely day. I have been reading a whole lot of wonderful writing on the subject of love and relationships today. I figured, it's all been said, Afterthought, what more are you going to add to the mix! So I'm sharing one of them. This is … Continue reading The Cost of Love [Repost]
Hey Feb, could you slow down a moment. Let me catch my bearings? Well this is a repost from about this time last year. It's silly to think it's been all of a year already. It sometimes feels unreal. Like where does time go when it runs🤔? Anyway...the post! Ever wish you could rewind the … Continue reading All this time!
🎶 Falalalala - lalala. Tis the season to be jolly! This year Christmas is looking different for quite a number of us, it certainly goes without saying. Sure, we've sang the carols, decorated the houses (for those who do that - my family is not one of those so our home looks just like it … Continue reading Deck the blog with cheer and stories!
Because the year is coming to a close, I thought I would revisit this post from July🤭 about my theme for next year. I have certainly been thinking a lot about doing things in my time and not feeling rushed or behind for a whole. But that confidence is always fleeting when the world applies … Continue reading Owning your timeline
There are things you see and can't see, things you hear and can't unhear, experiences you live through that can't be undone. Despite your most desperate wishes. Where you wish you had the power to permanently erase some memories. But the more you push them down, the more they come up. I think I have … Continue reading When the blinds come off …
What is the appropriate response to a mental breakdown? This is a repost from sometime in the year - May, feels so far and so close at the same time. Anyway, I feel like a good cry today so if you don't mind, let's bawl over these words. Break down! What a word! Does it … Continue reading Still waiting for permission to cry?